New Age Mumbo Jumbo To Some Of You However, This Stuff Really Works!

I know that to many people those who are overly positive, overly optimistic, overly encouraging, overly ambitious about life and overly into the idea of pushing others to see their own fantastic abilities to succeed can be thought of as overly nauseating BUT... I could personally care less. I've been nauseous with morning sickness for nine months- I'm used to it by now.

People that believe and believe and believe even when they fail and fail, and fail some more, experience a different outcome in life... Perhaps it's New Age Mumbo Jumbo to some but to me, this type of thought process and truly embodying this mentality has gotten me & my little family this damn far ( and what I mean by "this damn far" is we live in a candy coated condo and I own & run a very cool business and work my balls off so, don't get it twisted- there is no Fresh Prince of Bel Air happening here). I've watched the people in my life overcome devastating illness's & prognosis's, I've seen my own little family go from having very little to having something very special that was created without anything other then my own belief that we could this. I have seen people who were once pretty ruthless, negative and even cut-throat A-holes transform into better & nicer people (me included).  We all know that every day certainly isn't filled with unicorns, rainbows & lollipops but this video below was so impactful to me that I had to share this because as sensitive & hormonal as I may be right now which is probably why I cry so easily-I know this will mean something to many of you too! I mean, if the over-dramatic YOU CAN DO IT- instrumentals don't hit you, the messages certainly will. Now go watch it- it's good for you!

Don't make me come over their and wipe your tears for you and kick your ass into Greatness either because the truth is if you told me you needed it, I'd do it for you just the same way so many of you have done that for me. 

XoXo- Candy Girl

MOMPRENEUR 'S This Shout OUT Is So Over Due! Do Your Lollipop Thang' Mamas!

To All My Fellow Mompreneur's out there, this shout out is so over-due!

So just what is a Mompreneur?

“An entrepreneur who also happens to be a mother"

Entrepreneur magazine says, there are 10.6 million women-owned businesses in the United States, and these businesses are generating $2.5 trillion in revenue each year. The same study showed that women are opening businesses at twice the rate of men. The numbers are quite impressive…

Duhhh.. of course it's impressive because Girls Kick Major Sparkly Entrepreneurial Ass & We pop out babies, make dinner, do laundry, pay bills, buy our own cars, can pay the tab at a fancy restaurant, buy our own bling and... keep our families together! Can A Candy Girl Getta' Amen Up In Here Tonight!

So Can We or Can't We Do It All???? Ummm.. This is an obvious Duhhhh Moment!

Tonight I heard someone insinuate that you can't possibly focus on your family & build a business and career at the same time. You've got to pick one or the other. Now, I may not know it all however, I do know that I totally DISAGREE! On the planet I live on, mommy's are doing this every single day and although we sometimes face very tough, heart wrenching moments with our kiddos and can be pulled in 100 directions all at the same time... WE CAN DO IT ALL! Obstacles only exist if you let them.

Night Friends.. I'd leave you with a high kick & splits but I'm honestly so dang pregnant right now, I'd most likely tip over & chip one of my un-manicured nails - GOD FORBID! 

XoXo, Candy Girl

And PS- I'd be such a big, fat liar if I did not acknowledge the fact that I have got one hell of a kick ass, gorgeous husband & most hands on baby daddy who supports his insane wife so much that I'm able to make all this happen for my family.. I love you man and seriously, I still don't even know why you like me so much!